August 5 & 6 - no CMT services For those observing yahrzeit this week, your loved ones names will be read at the KI service and at our Monday evening minyan. Click here for Monday evening minyan - 7:00 PM
August 6 - Tisha B’av joint service with CMT and KI, 8:40 - 9:45 pm, In-person in the KI sanctuary or join virtually. Click here to join the livestream.
August 13 - In person (hybrid) Shabbat morning service 9:30 am. Celebration of Jared Stein and Mara Nobel aufruf
August 19 and 20 - no CMT services August 27 - In person (hybrid) Shabbat morning service 9:30 am. Celebration of Andrew Greenspon and Becca Cohn aufruf
If you would like to attend services in person, you are warmly invited to KI services. The times are: 6:00 PM for Kabbalat Shabbat/Friday Evening 9:00 AM for Shabbat Morning Services Click here to join KI online
If you would like to attend services via online, here are some services you might enjoy: Park Avenue Synagogue, NYC: https://pasyn.org B’nai Jeshuran, NYC: www.bj.org
CMT/KI Tisha B'Av
Join us for a joint Tisha B'Av service with KI on August 5, 8:40 - 9:45 pm in the KI Sanctuary. Vaccinations are required. The service will also be live-streamed. We will pray Ma'ariv, and read the book of Eicha/Lamentations
We Remember: This week's upcoming Yahrzeit Observances
Saturday Ellen Katz
Sunday
Monday Sidney S. Gutlon
Tuesday Stephen Boronkay
Wednesday Jim Sloane Robert Brown Samuel Dickerman Lillian Zimble
Thursday Mark Wizansky Stanley Graff
Friday Lillian M. Bernstein Rose Leve Jeanne G. Kotzen Dr. Jeri Traub Dr. Hyman Florence
A Teaching from our Rabbi
I davven regularly with a minyan. It began when my father died. I will always remember the day that all of us cried throughout the entire morning service. For a variety of reasons, grief emerged from deep within each of us and took over. We used more tissues that day than in any other. I worried that no one in the minyan would come back. Who wants to cry that much for that long?
But I was wrong. The next day, everyone returned. Two people even brought extra tissue boxes! They all agreed that both the grief and the tears were powerfully necessary, meaningful and useful. For there are times when we need to allow ourselves to simply…feel. Feel sad, grieve, and cry. Loss is real; sadness reminds us we are human; and grief is part of our emotional DNA. Tears are holy. None of it can be denied or ignored for very long, before sadness turns into ill health and forces us to remember that our personal world has been torn asunder and we are off balance.
Often, grief and tears are cleansing. They guide us, slowly and painfully, through the loss, and eventually, hopefully, back to steadiness or at least a bit more solidity. We learn how to find and renew ourselves through the sacred act of grieving.
As much as I hate feeling it, I know that, for me, grief is an important part of mourning and recovery. The days when I allow my sadness to shine through, and my tears mingle with those of others, are the times when I am most aware that feeling my grief is an act of prayer.
Tisha B’Av falls this Saturday night. Tisha B’Av, a fast day, is our Jewish day of mourning for all the tragedies that have befallen our people. Many gloss over it because it comes in the midst of summer, when we prefer to sit on beaches rather than on low stools of mourning. We’d rather read the newest Louise Penny mystery than the book of Eicha (Lamentations). But, just as we all need to face the hard times in our lives, and feel the pain of them, so too, we as a people have earned the holy right to sit with the loss of so many of our fellow Jews and all they would have brought to the world if they had been allowed to live in freedom.
This year, we Americans have much to mourn: continued losses from COVID; destroyed forests, species, and water supplies; reproductive rights for women and more. There is much that has caused sadness.
In recent years,for many Jews around the world, Tisha B’Av has become a time to both mourn and galvanize; to share despair and gain strength for the future; be aware of what has been lost and rededicate ourselves to work for a better world. After Tisha B’Av, we begin to read the haftorot of comfort on successive Shabbatot, when we are told again and again that hope is alive and redemption is on its way.
As the Psalms say, we shall turn our mourning into dancing and our tears into seeds for the future.
This Shabbat, may we allow ourselves to mourn, to miss our loved ones, to join our tears with Jews throughout the world. Then, as we rise from Tisha B’Av, may we find that we feel a bit cleansed, a bit more hopeful, and a bit more healed. And if you don’t, I invite you to recognise the power and holiness of your grief, and know that hope is there waiting for you when you are ready for it.
Shabbat Shalom Rabbi Marcia Plumb
Congregation Mishkan Tefila 384 Harvard St. Brookline, MA 02446
